Having faith in relationship (Trust)

Trust.

Now that's obviously a huge word in relationships and I know most of you are gonna think "Of course, you think you're very smart for discovering this?" But a lot of people today need to re-examine their relationships and dig up for the existence of such a term.

Getting jealous of some guy who's too close to your girlfriend and not trusting her not to take things to another level are different things (works with reverse genders). It is a known fact that jealousy fills the hearts of most couples in Malaysia, for stupid reasons such as your girlfriend is talking to her ex-boyfriend, or something.

Yes, being jealous is just an unavoidable feeling. Restricting him/her from talking to their ex or showing how annoyed you are when they do however, just shows the lack of trust in a relationship.

Now obviously the simple philosophy in restricting someone from talking to someone else is just so they don't feel attached to each other anymore. But as a side-effect, your other half in the relationship would obviously feel pressure, like there are things they can and cannot do even where friends are concerned. And to me, it's not something I would suggest you do.

Some of you are thinking now, "Are you stupid? By allowing my gf/bf to be really close with other guys/girls (respectively), they're obviously going to feel something with each other right?"

If you're going to make your partner avoid getting too close to people of the opposite sex, it's not going to help them learn self-control at all because sooner or later, your partner is going to have a good friend of the opposite sex to entertain him/her (in normal ways) while you're busy sometimes. It's an undeniable fact that your other half will mix with people from the opposite sex and there's nothing you can do about it. And it's inevitable that your partner will speak to his/her ex once in awhile and there's nothing you can do about it. So the best thing to do is obviously to let it go.

If you're on the receiving end of this and you go "He/she doesn't care about me, thats why he/she still lets me talk to my ex/get close to a person of the opposite sex" then that's really dumb because all they have shown by doing this for you is the trust they have in you.

I'm not saying I am perfect and having a romantic relationship going on. Everyone does mistake, I did mistake, my partner did mistake, just have to learn forgive/forgiven but don't forget.

All or nothing is easy. But taking something slowly and still being able to control yourself is really something.

Hoping someone you hate to die?

So the question is "is it evil to pray for someone to die?"

As for me, I think there must be something is wrong going hell to do with the person who cursed that due to that statement carries a lot of sins. No matter how much you hate the person, you should never curse or hoping someone to die, I am not a believer but I trust in karma that what goes around comes around. I always believe by saying that is much more cruel than you kill that person because if you do, you are doing it yourself, yet if you hope/pray, you are asking the God to get the job done. Its more like abusing the power of nature to fulfill your task, in the dark side because you see, praying someone to die comes from a very evil heart, like in movie or in bible, they call it "Satan". For Atheist like me or someone who only trust himself, you name it, i would just say that word comes from a bad heart and negative mindset attached with low EQ. 

So what would God says?  I do not know but i think God would want you to accept the person as they are even if their evil. You are cursing someone and bringing trials upon yourself. But if its for people that I love who is suffering in pain due to disease, hoping him/her to die peacefully is to pray for a release of pain of the suffering person and that is asking for mercy to be granted. And if i really do have God in me, i would pray that God would touch the person I hate and change him to a better person because if you sow hatred, it will come back to you, pray to change of heart, not for their death. So do, if you have a friend who wanting someone else to die, you should pray that God will touch him/her to release the poison in his/her heart.

Anyway, it's undeniable nowadays, people are cursing everywhere but if you do not mean what you said, then its fine. But if you cursed the person and you mean it during your climax emotion, and you realize its wrong, then you should apologize because when one person speaks, another person hears, if you curse a person, that person is cursed. You may forgive yourself for saying such, but you did not release the curse from that person. It is a sin that will hit you back, your family and your entire generations.