Relationship

Have you guys ever thought in which period of a relationship can you actually say "It will last forever"?
Think about it. You're in a really strong relationship with a gf/bf and you do believe it will go far. But most of the time, you'll be wrong. Especially at this (my) age, there's always things like studying abroad that will screw relationships up for people. And otherwise some people do say it to get others in bed. Whatever it is, my point is it will end, somehow - 

or maybe say things actually work out and phase 1 is completed. You get married.

Think about it. You're in a really strong marriage with your wife/husband and you do believe it will go far. But at times, you'll be wrong. Especially in this generation where 50% of marriages end up in divorce, which 50% do you stand in? 50% is a number, and if you do exclude external influence, that really does put the existence of your marriage in a flip of a coin - 

or maybe say things actually work out and phase 2 is completed. You die married.

Think about it. You're in wherever after you die, assume heaven or hell............

Don't expect the point of what I'm trying to say to be at the end of this story. Move back to the question. Basically, will you ever know the outcome of something as fragile as a relationship?

The reality is having two people to agree that they will live together and compromise their differences perfectly forever is..well, non-existent. It only takes one side to screw a relationship up because:

"In the arithmetic of love, one plus one equals everything, and two minus one equals nothing."
So all the people who are in a relationship or even marriage now, think about it. How absolutely sure are you that the other party is giving a 100% level of committment to the relationship? And the greatest question of all, how sure are you that YOU'RE at that level as well?

And those of you aren't in a relationship, what I'm trying to say is never give up when you like someone who is already currently in a relationship (it happens all the time I'm sure) and go "give up, it's over". Relationships are extremely fragile and anything may happen at any time. If you think it's worth the wait, it will be.

But out of 1000,  1-10 relationships do end up like fairy-tales, living happily ever after and what not. Just don't get your hopes up too high and lastly, cheers. To your relationship or future relationship, and hope for the best.

Anyway, this post is to remind myself on my mistakes that i have done before, because no one is right all the time, no?