Definition of Trust

Trust is something intangible but can be seen through one person attitude and behavior towards you. When people are trusting one another, clarification ought not to be made, no further verification - you have said it, I've heard it, no doubts no questions.

The word "trust" is widely used by all prospects in the world, regardless of (un)intentionally of how they judge towards people around them, to environment, to surrounding, to their closest one, to friends and strangers. Hereby, 2 scenarios happen regularly which are stated below:

When you trust a person offset of some occasions or accidents or maybe a conflict, you do not say "i trust you" to the person that you wanted to trust, all you have to do is just continue what are you doing and forget whatever had happened and decided to trust him and neglect rumors. Somehow if you can tell the 3rd party that you trust the 1st person, then your trust is genuine. Likewise, telling the 1st person that you trust him more or less like you do not really trust him normally - just for this time.

Meanwhile, some people tend to use the word "i trust you" - verbally as above-mentioned to hint  the prospect that this is the only time that i trust you, yet environment and people factors take place. This category of trust comes with doubts. For example A tells B "i trust you", and A asks C "is he for real". These people are not genuine.

This word can be harsh at times, whether its in personal or relationship issues or maybe at work. When you say "i do not trust you" or "i would not trust you anymore" can lead to a big wound to an unrecoverable scar. The sense of security has increased but trust has become gone-case. If trust is not in possession anymore, then one does not have to do extra things to regain the trust back.

Or maybe we should go into relationship issue, well, relationship is very subjective and whatever i commented here is subjects to be different from your thought. If you are looking for romantic and stress-less relationship, you can actually watch it in movie/drama. You enjoy watching happy ending, yet looking at mirror and fuck-my-relationship-life and expect your life-partner do the same like how others(movie) did. 

But somehow, i have few of my friends that i have witnessed their sorrowfulness at earlier stage of relationship and they are enjoying coupling now after 4 years as if the world is belong to them. Sad to say, i am not at that level yet, going to be - because environment factors take place. My working scopes are associated with dealing with human behavior/attitude, creating warm relationship to break the ice, creating intimate but limited space of relation kind of relationship. Thus, its hard for me to maintain a real relationship when there's no trust. The trust that i need is 99%. Another 1% maybe i would tell you i have eaten my lunch when in fact, i did not lol.