We all know how it's possible to suppress your craving for something and how it'll fade away eventually. Would it work the same way when you're dealing with feelings towards others?
The way I see it, the most realistic way out of my situation is to pull out of it by forgetting about it. Throughout so many years of people to people networking, i have learnt that the more you ignore the lesser it sparks - do not get it wrong, i wasn't saying ignoring the problem, it was more or less ignoring unnecessary comments and arguments that happened to be emotional whereby the person who talked is emotional too. Never deliver your message when you are angry, the next day you wake up, sorry doesn't work anymore. Yes i do experience couples and dozens of sorry and i always choose to forgive. Human brain is a very sensitive and emotional organic information organ, they act because your heart realizes. So always calm down, positiveness must take place.
I'm sick of myself being so obsessive about it. I'm not the kind who likes to make assumptions about my own life based on how I'm feeling. By right, no one should. I always prefer to take the rational style by sleeping it over and getting my emotions out of the way before I make judgement and decision. I use my brains a lot more than I use my 'heart'. I'm a realist. And by facts, not everyone is good in controlling their brains, they thought they do but still doing the same shit thing.
I've been feeling a lot more like a grown-up lately in the sense that I can talk to anyone very rationally about anything at all. The past few days I've been talking to friend about very serious issues like homosexuality, principles in relationships, politics etc. it's serious evaluating and scrutiny of the subject.Through all the settling of the dust of these discussions I feel strangely independent and confident.
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